Comfortable.

gigilicious:

That word. . Can always change a relationship for the good or bad. 

comfortable starts off as the feeling of being able to open up to someone, where it never occurred to you that you would actually tell this person things you’ve never told anyone. Leading to being a great listener yourself and taking his/her secrets and trying to understand the person they are. Then, it would go to the acceptance of the relationship, where no red flags would pop up as you spent time with him/her and respecting who they are. As things burst into flames with falling in love as you spend time with them every moment of the day as much you can. Those feelings is what brings you together and keep you inseparable.

Amazing months goes by… sex is great. movies nights. inside jokes. singing in car rides. waking up by each others side. Pho or mali thai lunch or dinner dates. attetnding parties with each other. going to the fair. walks by the beach and the park. laughing and having a good time.. then as things starts to soarrr.. here comes the arguments and the things where you disagree with one another. 

A year passes and another.. slowly things start to become a routine. and your hectic lives of pursuing your career or getting to it with school starts to take over. stress adds on.. and then time with each other seems to be limited. Soon enough, the one or the other will start to forget who to say goodnight or good morning each day and not even having interest about each others day. Soon the opening up, starts to turn into the closing up.

So after.. only time will tell and the effort from both, will determine if this will last of we thought would last. what can you do, in situations like this? nothing really. it could lead to a happy ending or to the worst. And as a lover we all strive for a happy ending.

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